[Youtube Review][TEDx Talks] How to stop screwing yourself over | Mel Robbins | TEDxSF

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Summary Comments : [TEDx Talks] How to stop screwing yourself over | Mel Robbins | TEDxSF

Ja***:

1. You're never going to feel like changing. Stop waiting for a perfect time.
2. You're never going to feel like it
3. You are not fine
4. Waking up earlier is a representation of the physical force required to change
5. You have to do what you don't want to do, so you can be everything you're supposed to be
6. YOU HAVE TO FORCE YOURSELF TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE

Jo************************:

1. Press this number 9:14
2. Wait 2 seconds
3. Repeat the process

Go***************:

Alright, here I go.. 5...4...3...2...1... Bye YouTube! I'm off to chase my dreams.

 

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Playtime Comments : [TEDx Talks] How to stop screwing yourself over | Mel Robbins | TEDxSF

Na***********:

11:38 I WAS JUST PROCRASTINATING ON MY COMPUTER INSTEAD OF GOING FOR A WALK LMFAOOOO

be**:

Wow this is so true! Especially where she starts at 16:20 . “When you start feeling dissatisfied, it means one of your psychological needs are not being met.” This took me a LONG time to learn!!

Se*********:

What I want to know is who took the picture at 9:41?

Li*******************:

Brilliant talk and I can't wait to put it in practice :) In fact I'll do it right now :D 8:07 is actually 1 in 400 billion, not trillion :O

An****:

9:43
Man that dog, takes good pictures.

gr**:

10:44 that would end up with me going back to sleep... unwillingly... on the floor

Na***********:

7:50 so are the odds of mosquitoes born.

el**:

i get up at 5am everyday, am i supposed to wake up at 4:30am or something?

My***:

I got up at 4:30 today! Thanks Mel!

Pe*********:

4:09 "FWAARRAR-RARR-WRARR-SDUN-FWARRAAARRS-DOOONID" What kind of language is this?

 

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Top Comments : [TEDx Talks] How to stop screwing yourself over | Mel Robbins | TEDxSF

Yo***************:

When you realize your addicted to comfort

Mi**********:

Her speech is very inspiring. Absolutely love her personality & energy.

Te***************:

"You could walk in a bookstore right now, and buy at least ten books"
Me in quarantine: u sure about that

Je************:

This video made me cry. 2 years ago i was down with cancer and my doctor told me i was going to die. I also lost my job and life looked so miserable to me. i was loosing hope and faith but i kept on looking up to God because i know he never fails. My brother and my sisters in the lord, i am proud and happy to tell you today that i well and i was cured of cancer and i am a proud owner of 3 companies today and i will forever be grateful to God and some few people in my. life. My mom & dad and Lyra Holt Dean, this lady made me what i am today financially . She introduced me to a bitcoin Blockchain group and i have never for once regret working with them. if you wish to reach out to her here is her email information@lyraholtdean. com i tell everyone about her and how she really changed my life and i am very grateful to God for bringing her into my life. I pray for everyone out there going through a lot of difficulties out there GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH. IF YOU BELIVE COMMENT AMEN. REMAIN BLESSED!!!!

St*****:

"Your problem isn't ideas. Your problem is you don't act on them."

Ph*************:

Rewatching this and noticing she first enters the room and asks everybody how they are doing and they replied "fine"

ha*****:

She kind of sounds like Jennifer Aniston

Im*******:

she's absolutely right. I'm going to force myself to wake up immediately tomorrow when my alarm rings.

Ju*******:

If 11 million people were this unsatisfied 9 years ago .... just imagine 2020

ta**************:

“Your soul needs exploration and growth”

Az****:

The woman that said "yeah" straight away when she asked if people knew a third were dissatisfied with their lives...
Thats me

Ch****:

Stop looking at comments and start doing stuff to get what you want!!

Ri*********:

I’ve been “fine” all my life.

Sc************:

That was the longest Nike commercial I've ever seen.

Cp********:

All I see here is hate comments, but I'm sure all those people hating are doing just fine.

Je**************:

God bless you Mel, this is still relevant today.

Be*******:

" Do all the things you don't want to do to be who you wanna be"

th*********:

Pretty sure every person needs to watch this during the pandemic.

FI****:

she was so comfortable, she was talking to them as a friend. I've never seen a ted talk amazing like this.

HM******:

I like this lady. She’s spot on! And she makes me laugh. That’s big

Op************:

Three words that I learned that changed my life. Persistence overcomes resistance.

Ch**************:

"Your problem isn't ideas. Your problem is you don't act on them."

Po*************:

Help i'm stuck on the TED self-help playlist

Co**********:

"You'll never hang out with the person who talks to you like you talk to yourself" hit read hard

Le*************:

"Action leads to motivation"
This is so true!
Two weeks ago I forced myself to stop procrastinating (after years and years...and years of trying) and started being productive. I hated it at first but after 3 days of changing bad habits and doing other things other than just being on the internet I started to LOVE the feeling of satisfaction I got everytime I did some hard work. I really feel like I can do anything, after two weeks! I'm never going back to the dark mindset I was in before. I'm enjoying life now and I'm really excited about the future. I know I have a long way and it's not easy but this is the new me.
You just need to experience both feelings (feeling of disappointment after you do something to screw yourself and the feeling of satisfaction you get when you do some hard work that you know is beneficial for you) I can assure you that you will choose that feeling of satisfaction everytime.

jo***********:

Thank you Mel, a wonderful talk, you have great energy. I particularly like the act on impulse, I hold back for many fears, insecurity, confidence, failure, shyness, the list goes on and on.
As soon as I feel an impulse to do something all of these things become my brake. Sometimes on rare occasions I can force myself into leaving my mind empty after I get an impulse, thus not permitting those doubts to get in and inhibit me from taking action.
I would be so much further along with my online project of sending moments of calm out into the world if I had of acted on impulses. I will keep what you said in the front of my mind ready for the next opportunity.
Johnnie Lawson

Bo*******:

The problem is, the school system actually destroys this part of the mind for many people. We're taught for years on end, to stop, think, analyze, ruminate... but it turns out we have intuition and gut impulses that can allow us to be spontaneous and confident in what we do... and not always see our failures in the form of an F or 40%. We're taught to work our butts off, then take long breaks. We're taught to follow a routine and do things that don't interest us for hours and hours to make some number. So when it's all done and we're in the real world, many of us simply don't know HOW to go about even framing our mind for this way of thinking. You're lucky if you had great parents, teachers or friends that fostered this part of you, and to people like this, it's easy. It's as simple as just doing it, and they don't understand why people procrastinate or have analysis paralysis.

I used to be a very creative and spontaneous child, and by the end of high school I was just another robot. It has taken me years to even realize what happened to me, and now I'm a few years deep into trying to find my natural human side again.

I know she has a small amount of time to get across a big topic, but for talks like this to be really effective IMO, they have to share a type of detox method with tangible things to do. Mindfulness meditation is so crucial for many of us. You can't be happy or operate in the "now" if you're constantly future tripping or thinking about your past. Again, the school system gears you to think of the future. Graduation will save you. Post-secondary will save you. Work will save you. Making tons of money will save you. Finding love will save you. Learn to live in the present, and learn to calm your mind so that the natural river of thought can flow without obstructions caused by everyday mundane  tasks or negative thoughts. That's how you'll find out what you really want, and what to do to get it. Social media  and pornography are killers. Bad diets, lack of exercise, and lack of PLAY are killers. Many people don't even realize how important it is to to PLAY. Play catch, play at a gym, play with friends. When we think of the road to accomplish something major, we think that ALL that time we'll have to be working and it's daunting. Because that's what it was like in school. But in reality, if you learn to work a bit, then play a bit, you can continue on the road to your goals with a freer mind.

Anyway, I don't have all the answers, and I'm in the struggle myself. But I just thought I'd share with everyone some of the things I've come to learn. I see a lot of comments saying that it's easier said than done. And really, I agree. Very few speakers are tackling the tangible everyday things that are plaguing the mind needed to even be receptive to these types of speeches.

 

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