[Youtube Review][TEDx Talks] How to Have a Good Conversation | Celeste Headlee | TEDxCreativeCoast

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H6n3iNh4XLI

 

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Summary Comments : [TEDx Talks] How to Have a Good Conversation | Celeste Headlee | TEDxCreativeCoast

Sp*************:

Notes from video:
1. Don’t be half in half out of the conversation. Be in it or out of it.
2. Don’t pontificate. Stating an opinion without the opportunity for response, argument or discussion. Enter every conversation assuming that you have something to learn. Set aside your personal opinion. Everyone you meet knows something that you don’t. Everyone is an expert in something.
3. Who, what, where, when, how? Let them describe it.
4. Go with the flow. Thoughts will come and go.
5. If you don’t know, say that you don’t know. Talk should not be cheap.
6. Don’t equate your experience with theirs. If they’re talking about the time they lost a family member, don’t start talking about the time you lost a family member. If they start talking about the trouble they’re having at work, don’t start talking about how you hate your job. It’s never the same. All experiences are individual.
7. Try not to repeat yourself. It can come across as condescending and it’s really boring. We tend to do it a lot in work situations and conversations with our kids.
8. Stay out of the weeds. People don’t care about the minutiae. What they care about is you.
9. Listen. This is the most important.
• If your mouth is open you’re not learning – Budda and every Dad there ever was.
• No man ever listened his way out of a job – Calvin Coolidge.
10. Be brief.
• A good conversation is like a mini skirt; short enough to maintain interest, but long enough to cover the subject.
Be interested in other people.
Everyone has some hidden amazing thing about them.
Go out, talk to people and prepare to be amazed.

 

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Playtime Comments : [TEDx Talks] How to Have a Good Conversation | Celeste Headlee | TEDxCreativeCoast

Ja**********:

01:49
Me: Are you kidding; that's surprisingly low

Ko********:

Great talk..
But couldn't resist noticing the guy from 0:22 to 0:33.Poor guy . That lady was clearly not interested in him. Two times. She didn't find it funny at all lol

Je********:

1:51 "almost most of them"?

So*********:

4:29 To skip the introduction. This is a wonderful speech, but I'm finding myself listening to it over and over so I thought I would skip the introduction.

Ab***********:

3:27 Golden quote

Ne********:

3:24 YES!! I like her already.

Gr*********:

8:49

em********:

1:12 thanks to the chosen few

Co*******:

1:44 lol I barely send one text a week to a friend and whenever I do text them they wanna call or vid chat

 

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Top Comments : [TEDx Talks] How to Have a Good Conversation | Celeste Headlee | TEDxCreativeCoast

Ni******:

me, an introvert: instantly clicks

Sh************:

*Everyone you will evermeet,
knows something you don't,

ra**********:

I mentally time the other person. if a minute and a half goes by and the other person doesn't shut up, they're not trying to have a conversation.

An*********:

"Thoughts come into your mind, and you need to... Let them out of your mind."

Ca************:

#6 is me...I always thought mentioning how my experience is similar to theirs, it would let the person know I can relate, because I've been there. It never occurred to me that it could come across as changing the subject to me or as being narcissistic. I'm going to stop doing this as of now. Good advice! I'm an intravert, so, listening has always been my strong suit, but some great tips in this talk.

Se**:

"Be prepared to be Amazed" The final and strongest words.

Ke****:

Brilliant! Worth to watch often to keep what she said fresh in my memory

Hu******:

‘Be prepared to be Amazed’ ..great speech.

De*******:

One of the best ted talks I've seen

so******:

-"average people speaks at 255 word/min but we can listen to 500 word/min"
-proceed to put the speed x2

JI*******:

As a barber, I always do the talking, it's exhausting, this was a great video, I will use this, thanks a lot for posting

MS*****:

"Most teens at this time send over 100 texts a day"
Me: looks at phone
two texts
-_-

An*************:

"who has unfriended someone on facebook because of something they said about ... food?"


* every italian in the audience raises hands *

An**********:

She has been by far my favorite TED speaker. I'm definitely going to follow any of her future speeches.

Je**********:

Thank you, Celeste Headlee, for getting us thinking about the way we talk to each other. Hope to be in conversation soon! Another view on TEDx is "Better Conversations for a Better World - Jeffer London"

Le***********:

This might be my favorite Tedtalk

Sa***********:

So how do I keep a good conversation if I'm a really good listener?

Ao*********:

Instructions unclear. Sat with somebody for half an hour in complete silence, because we were both just listening

ST******:

yeah I'm still gonna say "you too", when the waiter tells me to enjoy my meal

Ma*********:

her closing statement should have been "thanks for listening"

Sh***********:

This is one of the best TEDx talks. I am so thankful.

Mi************:

"i agree listening is a skill"!......so wait & contain oneself!?

Ro**********:

If you're reading this, I hope you have a great day!

JB*:

The good news is everybody is now ready to listen.

The bad news: nobody wants to talk anymore.

Er**********:

Celeste Headlee​ is such a pro and drops some incredible advice for life, in 12 minutes. I was not prepared to be amazed, but I was! Besides being clever in a bunch of little ways, this was such excellent advice (for me personally). I need to rewatch this this regularly just to keep it fresh in my mind.

Am***********:

Investing in Bitcoin/crypto currency is the only big chance of making money

Ba**********:

At first i thought her heavy breathing was kinda distracting but i got used to it and it ended up adding a kind of passionate affect to the speech
also this speech made me happy

Lo**********:

I RARELY type comments-this is one of the BEST talks I have heard...it made me go "HMMM.." many times. I intend to listen to it several times so I can really begin to implement these beautiful ways of being in conversation.

Mi*********:

He thing is I like listening, I’m really good at taking in what people say and developing their thoughts. The problem is then talking. I think I’m really weird in that aspect that I would much rather listen to someone talk about a topic and learn from them than to interject my own ideas into a conversation. I came to this trying to learn how to hold a conversation with someone, but this for the most part isn’t what I needed. I need the other end of the spectrum for advice. I need to learn how to talk more. I’m not trying to lessen what she said, I still think this helped me a lot and I’m gonna try using her tips. Idk, I guess this is what being an introvert is like

Jo*************:

She makes a bunch of great points in this talk. I think my favorite - or perhaps second to the one about being a good listener - was the one about letting go of the thoughts that run through our minds when someone's talking. We think that we'll forget it if we don't hold onto it, but it's our real-time responsiveness that'll make what we say hit. And we're capable of tracking a number of points that someone makes at the same time, so our responses to them can take on the nuanced character that really listening yields. Well look at that: letting go of our thought stream is really very closely related to careful listening.

 

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