[Youtube Review][TED] "Everything happens for a reason" -- and other lies I've loved | Kate Bowler

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Playtime Comments : [TED] "Everything happens for a reason" -- and other lies I've loved | Kate Bowler

dh**************:

13:27. Exactly ma'am. You can't truly experience the pleasure of eating until you have experienced the hardship of hunger. (We're all praying for your complete recovery and a long , long life :-) )

Le****:

My takeaways:
1. We are surrounded by paper walls 6:57

Ou*********:

1:45 is the moment I started crying. You guys staid 3. I'm weak.

ja************:

Today 23rd sept 2020 at 22:22 pm. I saw this one after my unapreciatted 2yrs effort. She changed me i want to wake up tomorrow and work hard . Thank you.

dr***********:

0:53 Love this moment

 

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Top Comments : [TED] "Everything happens for a reason" -- and other lies I've loved | Kate Bowler

by**********:

May you live a long life, Kate, and if this talk should serve as your legacy...well done, my dear, well done.

Da********:

Everything she said, and all that she has experienced, should be in a book. One I would happily purchase for it's unfolding wisdom

So************:

"But I have a son." And he will see this video someday and KNOW how much he is loved and how strong and beautiful his mother is.

Also, I needed these words today. Your words on how to start living and loving without reasons and assurance that nothing will be lost....so powerful. Thank you.

to****:

A courageous woman, beautifully articulate, poetry in motion: “I am learning to live and to love without counting the cost, without reasons and assurances that nothing will be lost.”

Ms*************:

This is what we are being taught in order to be good people and good citizens. The truth is, we just get what we get. Often with no reason behind it. Maybe, just maybe, to learn a very valuable lesson: we shouldn't think we are better than others simply because we are good people. We shouldn't judge others or compare ourselves to them. We should humbly accept our own happenings and fight our own battles. Peace.

Da*****:

Arthur Schopenhauer: "Life is a deal that does not cover its cost"

ar******:

"life will break your heart... I believe that in the darkness, there will be beauty and there will be love. And every now and then, it will feel like more than enough" Oh my gosh no TED talk has ever made me ugly cry. This is just what i was looking for. Been having a difficult time lately and trying to make sense of it or justify it but no, everything here made sense.

Ma*****:

I literally clapped when she said 'thank you '. Only then I realized I was watching a YouTube video. It seemed so live

Lu*******:

I've Been Through
Painful Tragedy...

" When The Feelings Recede
Like The Tide
They Will Leave An Imprint "

Ra************:

This is by far my favourite Ted talk I've ever seen. It's full of emotions and ideas. I can't get enough with it. Thank you

XR**:

No, not everything happens for a reason. But you can personally give anything a reason, if you choose.

C*:

"Life is so beautiful and life is so hard." Yes that is so incredibly true. I am still waiting to experience the "even in the darkness, there will be beauty and there will be love" part.

Sa******:

She’s gorgeous in every single way. Thank you

th*************:

This video was, beautiful, touching and so incredibly terrifying.

Ti********:

i saw the title “everything happens for a reason” and immediately scrolled but then saw other lies i loved and immediately clicked lol

Lu*******:

“We want to live in a world where nothing is lost.”

Like an arrow through the heart.

Br****:

The fact is that life is random and we only have some minor control over our circumstances. Your starting point in time, the family you are part of, the country you live in, and the genetic heritage you are given is completely out of your control. Even the random things that will occur around you are not within your control - either to predict or avoid. All you can even hope to control is what happens here and now in this moment. There is no outside force micromanaging your existence. In 2012 my father died after 4 months fighting an infection due to a failed surgery. The surgery was supposed to be a routine polyp removal. I neither blame God nor the surgeons for what happened. It was merely the randomness of death that struck. I mourned his passing, but did not need to place blame on anyone. I think it is a childish conceit to think that we are special and that we are "blessed". The reality is we live on a speck of dust in a huge and vast universe. That may sound like a very lonely statement to make - but it makes me feel free. I will take responsibility for the moments I have and live them fully. That is all that anyone can do.

LE**************:

That was literally the best speech I have ever heard. And lord, it was touching and inspiring at the same time. Fell in love with her and her sense of himoir .

Ta*****:

Such an emotionally charged session! May God cure her immediately!

Yi*******:

This is a heartbreaking story. I admire a strong woman like you. Good luck! I'm sure I can still see you and for years to go.

Ob*************:

The most honest and heartfelt talks I’ve listened to in a while. I pray that you receive enough strength and the love will never fade! Keep living!

pr*******:

Her words sound so re-assuring in these Corona pandemic times too. Lovely words!!

Zi*****:

Never been so touched by the words "Trying to find logic in this seeming chaos." sometimes chaos is just chaos.

VA******:

Whenever she is talking about her son she got emotional and tears were rolling in her eyes..she is more worried about what would happen to her son if something happens to her than her health..this is how a mother loves her children

nb****:

Six years ago, I got an accident and it burned me about 20% and cut my ankle seriously. I blamed the world because of it against me.
Six years after now, I thank the world because it did not take my life away, and I am enjoying every beautiful place around this world.

Pi*******:

When somebody tells me everything happens for a reason I feel like I want to punch them in the face and say: it's okay this happened for a reason.

Ka******:

In life's toughest moments, how do you go on living? That's the sentence I learned after watching that video. Kate Bowler, who has been exploring this question ever since was diagnosed with stage IV cancer at age 35. After listening to her speech, I was deeply moved. I realized that the world is a combination of the best and the worst. you and I cannot choose it, we can just cope with living with it and I believe that these opposites do not cancel each other out. "Life is so beautiful and life is so hard." Yes, that is so incredibly true. I am still waiting to experience the "even in the darkness, there will be beauty and there will be love" part. I learned to live and to love without counting the cost, without reasons and assurances that nothing will be lost. Life will break your heart, and life may take everything you have, and everything you hope for. But I believe that in the darkness, even there, there will be beauty and there will be love. And every now and then it will feel like more than enough.

Sa*************:

When she said that she is well now, I was like THANK GOD sighing in relief. Was it just me?

Be***********:

“Life will break your heart.” Radical acceptance has helped me immensely. It is so easy to observe others and make assumptions about how much someone has endured. The truth is that we will all experience trauma. The mistake we make is comparing it to someone else’s. Tread lightly and live compassionately.

Mo************:

"I am learning to live and love without counting the cost" such a nice and touching words.

Si********:

I can’t be the only one that start crying during the first 3 min

Da**********:

I listened to this after losing 5 relatives in 4 months 2 weeks including my mom and sister. Many people asked me why? Why would God do this? and my answer was I don't ask why, all I do is try to live and love and be thankful that I had them in my life.

Mo*****:

"The universe is under no obligation to make sense to you." - Neil deGrasse Tyson.
Most people find that statement terrifying. The idea that the universe is truly random, that there is no plan, no reason, no logic.
For me, that's the most beautiful part of this existence. There is no reason or guarantee for you to exist and yet, you do. You are a statistical improbability in orders of power beyond your own limited comprehension, all the power a deterministic universe could grant you pales in comparison to the obscene luck of your very existence.
You are not special, but your fleeting cosmological moment to observe this universe that is both terrifying and beautiful is. Enjoy it, make memories and when your time inevitably ends remember one thing. Your life was undeniably your own, you are free.

Pa*********:

"I see that the world is jolted by events that are wonderful and terrible. Gorgeous and traggic. I can't reconcile the contradiction. Except that I am beginning to believe that these opposites do not cancel each other out. Life is so beautiful and life is so hard.
I am learning to live and to love without counting the cost, without reasons and assurances that nothing will be lost.
Life will break your heart, and life may take everything you have, and everything you hope for. But I believe that in the darkness, even there, there will be beauty and there will be love. And every now and then it will feel like more than enough".

Je*********:

I've come to a point in my life where I've grown to accept the fact that there is no reason. That life is a lot simpler than humans try to make it to be.
If you really need a reason, there's only "because that's the way the world works"
The world includes humans, plants, animals, etc. Think of insects and their own short lives ...all the small prey like mice being hunted daily. The trees being cut down and burned.
Where there is beauty, there is tragedy. Where there is success, there is someone being stepped on. Life on Earth is a circle. A circle of psychology and life.
It's just time to accept that it's okay for life to not have a reason because the truth is, there could be many little reasons that have nothing to do with you personally.

Maybe you didn't get that job because someone else knew the boss. They didn't mean to step on you. There was nothing you did wrong to cause that. It just is.
That's my point.
It just is.
And that's just fine....because everyone else gets the same equality. From bugs to people. There is no hierarchy of who deserves what.

 

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