[Youtube Review][TED] What I learned from 100 days of rejection | Jia Jiang

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Summary Comments : [TED] What I learned from 100 days of rejection | Jia Jiang

In**************:

In the face of rejection: DO NOT RUN
1. Ask why: people usually give you a way forward
2. Mention the doubt: "Is that weird"? - gains trust
3. Just ask: keep asking and you shall receive

 

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Playtime Comments : [TED] What I learned from 100 days of rejection | Jia Jiang

Ta*******:

If you only watch a small part of this video (watch the whole thing, it's gold), let it be 14:05 - 15:31. Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react.

 

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Top Comments : [TED] What I learned from 100 days of rejection | Jia Jiang

S*:

a very nice and inspiring talk. Nice to see TED returning to more informative and helpful talks instead of divisive politics.

Sc*********:

This was very touching. I'm one of those guys with overwhelming insecurities and the only answer I've been able to find thus far was the "get over it" cop -out. With this kind of insight I might actually try something new. Thank you for sharing, Jia Jiang.

Su***:

i got rejected from a job interview, but it helped me learn what i did wrong, i interrupted the interviewer. What a great lesson I learned from my rejection!

Ov**************************:

100 days of rejection? Pfffft that’s nothing I’ve been rejected for the past 23 years and counting

Ma*********:

Top 5 TED Talk without a doubt! truly amazing!

Ta********:

Wait if getting rejected 100 times is a project I would have the highest grade by now

Ab*************:

After watching your ted talks, I've observed that i always accept my rejection and i don't change it. But now I've committed to decide that I'll embrace the rejection everyday, Focus that, learn from that and share this 1 person everyday

La************:

There is another important key to open hearts: fun. Because nearly all of the challenges you were choosing, Jia, have been fun, either for yourself or others, or both. People love to laugh and it's hard to reject s/o that makes you laugh.

Tu*********:

It's weird that this would show up right now, I started a similar project just a week ago (not knowing about this person which om now very interested in).
I have a really difficult time just talking to people for the sake of it, and I thought that is a massive roadblock in my life. So I made this game, where every school day on the bus home, I have to sit next to a stranger and just talk to them.
It's terrifying, but I see myself getting less scared, so it might be working :)

P*:

Now go and ask Bill Gates if you could buy his company

Fa*******:

One of the best ted talks I’ve ever heard.

St**********:

I like this reminds me that I've made some things unnecessarily serious when things can actually be more playful, more spontaneous and light.

Na****:

"Sometimes you can even get rejected by lighting" LOOOL

KA******:

I'm literally feeling the anxiety of rejection just watching this video.

Al********:

Everyone in life will experience some type of rejection. 'Rejection does not define you. The reaction after rejections defines you'. Great TED talk

Mr*****:

love his advice, so simple, stop running, turn & charge straight at it!!! tackle it, grapple with it. who knows, u may win one day!

Mi*****************************************:

Absolutely great TED talk! I'm still waiting for someone to start this "burger refill" business

Be*********:

If a talk makes you stop what you are doing and focus on the speech its really unique. This is my favourite TED X talk !

Tr*****:

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
-Michael Scott

Fl********:

~Gets inspired but doesn't implement practices in real life~

RQ*:

This guy should totally start a career of stand-up comedy! He's got a natural and effortless sense of humor around him

Th****************:

One of the most down to earth, sincere & enriching Ted talks I have watched. It's really quite powerful.

Th***************:

I've watched this over 10 times now and It's still informative and hilarious as the first time I've seen it. Ups to you big guy. Great TED talk!

Th********:

I asked my crush out. She rejected me, so I asked if I'm weird before she could tell me that I am. She said, "yeah".

Su**************:

Jia: Can I do a Ted talk about being rejected?
Ted: Sure thing bro
Jia: (wtf dude you're supposed to say no)

La*******:

Jia: "Hey can I be president?"

Ge******:

fantastic loop:
Ask.
If accept? Great.
If reject? Eh. I needed some rejection therapy anyway

St****:

I've watched this so many times and still laugh, it never gets old. This is the TED Talk that turned my life around, and trust me when I say I've watched too many to count. For a few years now, I have "practiced" almost every day even with really small attempts at getting rejected and it really changed my life. Better career, better entourage, a loooot of money saved and opportunities created.. I feel so grateful that I once stumbled upon this video and encourage y'all to do the same !!

So******:

An amazing talk from a sincere guy with a great sense of humor about an issue that 99.9% of people suffer from? Sign me up~

Em**********:

i like painting as a hobby. I've been inspired, I think I'm going to work hard on a piece then go to a local gallery and ask if I can put my painting in there. Worst that can happen is that they say no!

Mo********:

One of the best presented Ted’s I’ve seen! Way to go Jia

No*********:

In Jia's letter, he also mentions winning a Nobel prize and buying IBM by the age of 35. Cool guy.

T*:

I'll never forget being 8 yrs old in the drive-thru w/ my dad telling me that rejection is nothing to be afraid of (he IS an amazing salesperson), and then proving it by asking for a FREE large order of fries at the drive-thru speaker at McDonalds. He joked with the cashier for a second, then asked again. She laughed and said "I don't think that's possible," and my father said, "We would love it if you could do it!" and pulled forward.

What do ya know...the girl hands us our order. NO fries. Then she turns to grab something else...THE BIGGEST BAG OF FRENCH FRIES I'VE EVER SEEN. It was. an. entire. bag. of. fries. All these employees start laughing. My face must have lit up. To this DAY, I've never seen that many french fries at one time. These people EMPTIED the stockroom to make this thing. Laughter abounds. A lesson learned...
And somewhere, a lost french fry rests silently beneath the seat of an '88 Ford Taurus...

AWESOME VID!

N*:

Life lesson: everyone is as terrified of disappointment as you are.... use it against them

Us***:

I actually asked my girlfriend out after watching this and, well, it actually worked lol

en******:

After her graduation ceremony at school, my daughter wanted to have a nice dinner at a famous restaurant. When we walked in, the waiter told us that the restaurant was fully book and asked us to come back the nextday and made a reservation first.
We walked out of the door . Then I remembered something. I walked in again and asked the waiter while pointing at a reserved table : ‘when are the guests supposed to show up?’ In one hour.
So i gave him an offer : if he can prepare the food in 15 minutes, we would dine and got out of there in 30 minutes. He thought for a minute and we had our dinner there.
On the way out my wife asked me how I managed to do that. Without turning my head, I said : ‘I watched this stupid video by a guy named Jia on YouTube and gave it a shot...........’

Ge*************:

I had a teacher in college who told me that unless I could do lesson plans well I would never become a good teacher. When I started teaching at the high school level I endeavored to become the best I was possible of becoming. At a point in time I made a serious change in the way I taught and what I taught. The program I developed had become the top program in CA. My students won the competitions and I had zero dropout rate in a school that had a record of 2/3 of the students dropping out. During that time I got some complaints from parents telling me I made their children work too hard but not one came from a student. The people who encouraged me came from one person who had founded one of the schools I had attended and it was one of the top schools in the world. The most successful people rise above the status quo at great risk. Home Depot was started by two men who once worked for Handy Dan's. They wanted to see customer service improve. Today Handy Dan's is out of business.

An*********:

My friend introduced me to the most beautiful girl I’ve ever met at a concert.... not only her looks but her personality ... I could tell she liked me very quickly(she grabbed my hand and pulled me into the crowd) and just gave a flirty vibe I guess.

So after 5 minutes I convinced my friend to come to the bathroom with me and get a drink(I got nervous and was scared she would reject me, mostly thinking of the outcomes and not being present)

I didn’t know it would be the last time I would ever see her... We couldn’t find them afterwords .. i was on vacation in Athens, Greece and my friend had just met the two of them....

I can’t explain the feeling I got that night and the days following....

I just want to be present and free. I love people and life but I cannot seem to break out of my own mind.

 

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