[Youtube Review][TEDx Talks] The psychology of seduction | Raj Persaud | TEDxUniversityofBristol

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Summary Comments : [TEDx Talks] The psychology of seduction | Raj Persaud | TEDxUniversityofBristol

E*:

Tips for Seduction
1. Based on social psychology experiment, being disagreeable then switching halfway through to being agreeable makes you more attractive to the other person. An artificial "warm up" is created
2. Attention, interest, and maintenance. Different skills are necessary for each phase. Attention being am initial spark, interest being a focus on short term charms, and maintenance being long term commitment and patience.
3. Appealing to bolster their weaknesses into strengths. Finding an unmet need, and fulfilling it.

jc******:

Thanks EJ for the summary. Below is your summary with timestamps
Tips for Seduction
1. 5:56 Based on social psychology experiment, being disagreeable then switching halfway through to being agreeable makes you more attractive to the other person. An artificial "warm up" is created
2. 9:09 Attention, interest, and maintenance. Different skills are necessary for each phase. Attention being am initial spark, interest being a focus on short term charms, and maintenance being long term commitment and patience.
3. 10:55 Appealing to bolster their weaknesses into strengths. Finding an unmet need, and fulfilling it.

 

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Playtime Comments : [TEDx Talks] The psychology of seduction | Raj Persaud | TEDxUniversityofBristol

12****:

6:33
“Then at the end of the date it was revealed that it was actually a social psychology experiment.”

Imagine having an awesome date and then you find out it meant nothing

N*:

15:14 Her unmet need wasn't for parts without the letter R.. It was to be loved just as she is! People's motivations are 90% not work driven, but by human need to be appreciated and seen and cherished for themself... This was Casanovas skill, to see the unmet need and to make a gift towards that. He had eyes that could perceive, and the emotional intelligence to do so.

 

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Top Comments : [TEDx Talks] The psychology of seduction | Raj Persaud | TEDxUniversityofBristol

Av**********:

sijuicing

Ed******:

very intelligent and amazing speech.

Br***********:

That was one of the best speeches I’ve ever heard

1C********:

You have to give, to get....I like that!

Ar**********:

This lecture just saved my life hahaha

Sa**********:

A brilliant ted talk truly ! Thank you doctor Persaud !

Aj*********:

I watched this because my name is almost the same as this man.

Ma***:

Reminds me of why people like people who 'play hard to get', it's because being able to see that change/impact that happens is seductive... when that person finally 'warms up'

Sa*******:

Possibly the best speaker I've seen on TEDx till date. Bravo!

ma*******:

For me it was very powerful " you can choose to don't play the game but just be aware everyone else is doing" . So this is it. You may refuse to follow the patterns but they will always be there no matter what ! very wise!!! loved it and made a lot of notes

sa******:

I really like this guy, how he goes about seduction and separates the erotic side from the psychological part. Many people think automatically of seduction being erotic which if that's all your focused on, you're just screwing yourself and setting yourself up for failure. But by following his suit, it goes into the proper way to do it, very great episode!

Lo***********:

Find the person’s unmet need AND fill it in a way that’s never been met before

Qu**********:

I love this. I used to think I really was a master in the art of seduction on a personal and professional level. And to some degree I am, but now I know how to amplify my skills. I don’t want to use my charms for maleficent intent. I now know to focus more on an unmet need and allow the object (man, job, etc) of my desire to gravitate towards me.

Et***:

BRUH! this man is dripping with swag, his prose flames all other ted talks.

Ca******************:

I didnt expect to be seduced.. Haha. Dam Raj. You are good. Haha . Great speech.

Ch****************:

Attention, interest, maintenance

Discovering the unmet need
Filling the unmet need

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He got my attention via the title, he peaked my interest via giving me value, and now I DESIRE to know HOW thus making him the source. He will in a sense teach me how to maintain my ability to be successfully seductive.

ir********:

lol im good at taking people who are rabbidly in love with me and making them somewhat disinterested.. rather than this vice versa thign called 'seduction'

Au*********:

That is exactly how 20 years ago my future husband seduced me! He saw my need and met it! I came home from work to find the first thing he ever gave me sitting in my living room, He had bought me a washing machine!!! Mine was broken and I was washing by hand for three people after work every day. (One was a three year old, lots of laundry! And my room mate who was sick.)We just celebrated our 19th Anniversary!

AN**************:

That was very deep but I agree with him, if you want something whether it's about someone you like or material things that you want to achieve in life, you really have to give first or make an offer before it is given to you and that's how seduction works, it really works like magic.

Ra***********:

Absolutely effing brilliant. This is the EXACT essence of seduction

Su**********:

"I love you just the way you are" Song by Billy Joel. Fascinating lesson in psychology of seduction!

G*:

awesome, he's a class speaker, well-paced, very intelligent and his voice is so soothing lol. I'm seduced :)

Ro*******:

He's a great speaker...if that's a seduction...I got seduced! :)

M*:

"dr. persaud, i don't need prozac... i need a boyfriend!" i'm feeling attacked

la*********:

Drinking game: Everytime he says "my clinic", take a shot

Ki***********:

powerful!!

La************:

How the HELL, do you write a PLAY without ANY R's?!?!

Sa******:

He speaks so nicely and eloquently. His accent is sharp as well. However, I did not like this talk on seduction.

Fa*****:

"Life is a seduction game"
I'm doomed.

Ra******:

One of the best teds I’ve watched. The way he ended with a form of seduction was brilliant!

wa***************:

Everyone wants to MEET the right person, but very few want to do the very hard work of BEING the right person.

Mi*******:

I met a girl, found out she needed another guy, I then focused all my efforts to help her get that guy. And she did. Am I doing this right?

pa***********:

I guess in order for seduction to be good (and ethical) it must be genuine and kind or else it's nothing more than a meaningless game.

Br***************:

There is a theory of Love that says that we are attracted to someone who is strong where we are weak--and they can do what we cannot, and weak where we are strong--so we can do what they cannot. There needs to be some common interests that both are good at, or/and both are bad at, but it is this counter-match ("opposites attract") that makes the Love. In effect, what it does is make two incompetent part people into one competent whole couple. This is another variation of Dr. Persaud's concept of "fill the unmet need". You are meeting the need of your partner that they cannot meet themselves, and in return, they do the same for you

sb*******************:

I think I've just realised my mistake. I always thought the idea of a date was to be as funny as possible, tell as many stories as possible and demonstrate how smart and capable I am to show that I would be a great partner/mate. In doing this I have been 100% focused on showcasing myself which of course now smacks of selfishness and perhaps desperation..? In assuming that no matter what I'd like to be with this person and I must do/say everything possible to get them. Focusing on your date instead and listening to them, finding out what they really want and what they're really like etc is really an entirely different approach and it does make a lot of sense. I personally can't stand when someone I'm with - even a friend - just talks non-stop about themself, trying to be funny etc, it's so boring and annoying!! It truly is! And I hate having to 'pretend laugh'. For me it's a genuine belly laugh or it's nothing. Bottom line is I guess everyone is really only interested in themselves, at least at first. Then later on once you get to know each other a bit more, other things come into play like money etc.

Ba******:

Some feedback on the social experiment:
If a person only agrees with you, the agreement cancels out itself. If someone only pays you compliments the value of each compliment gets less. If someone only agrees, there is no value and no personality there. This is not attractive.
If a person only disagrees you're obviously not compatible. This is not attractive.
If a person first disagrees, and then agrees, both of the above problems are cancelled out. So of course this setup will be the most 'seductive' of these 3 scenarios, regardless of any other theories. So the idea that the person likes you more because they've made an impact on you might be true, but I would draw that conclusion from common sense rather than from some contrived 'social science' BS.

 

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